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What Happens to Me Now? Your Post-Divorce Starting Point

Divorce can leave you asking, What happens to me now?
This short quiz will help you answer that.

You’ll identify the first area of your life that’s most ready for healing—so you can start building real confidence, peace, and momentum again.

This is not about fixing what’s broken. It’s about recognizing where you are right now and what part of your post-divorce life is asking for attention.

Your results will point to a clear starting place—and introduce you to the roadmap we use to help women move fully to the other side of divorce.

Welcome! This quick assessment is designed to help you discover where your healing journey is ready to begin.

How to get the most from this quiz: 

Read each question carefully.

Choose the answer that feels most true for you right now.

We recommend keeping a pen and paper handy to jot down your answers as you go—it will help you see patterns and get clearer insights.

There are no right or wrong answers—just honest reflection. When you finish, you’ll find a simple guide to help you interpret your results and understand your next best step forward.

When you’re ready, click below to begin.

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Question 1 of 9

 

1. When you think about what’s missing right now, what comes to mind first?

A

I don’t even know who I am anymore

B

I’m always putting myself last

C

I feel anxious about money and the future

D

I’m unsure who I can really trust or connect with

Question 2 of 9

2. Which of these would make the biggest difference in your day-to-day life right now?

A

Feeling grounded in who I really am again

B

Having space to rest, reset, and breathe

C

Feeling confident managing my finances

D

Having people in my life who truly support me

Question 3 of 9

3. What’s been the hardest part emotionally since your divorce?

A

Losing a sense of self

B

Feeling burned out and overlooked

C

Worrying about money all the time

D

Feeling alone or unsupported

Question 4 of 9

4. When you think about the future, what feels unclear or unsettled?

A

Who I am and what I want

B

Whether I’ll ever feel truly okay again

C

How I’ll take care of myself financially

D

What love or relationships will look like from here

Question 5 of 9

 

5. When you have a moment to yourself, what do you usually feel?

A

Curious about who I am today - at this stage of my life

B

Inspired by the possibilities and excited about what’s ahead

C

Ready to stop worrying or feeling guilty about money

D

Excited to find new, healthy connections

E

None of the above

Question 6 of 9

6. What kind of support do you most want right now?

A

Help reconnecting with my true self

B

Encouragement to dream bigger and believe in a brighter future for myself

C

Guidance to feel confident managing my finances

D

Tools and skills to help me create healthier relationships

Question 7 of 9

7. What’s something you’ve been putting off because it feels too big?

A

Taking time to explore who I really am

B

Pursuing goals or dreams that feel exciting and meaningful

C

Getting a clear picture of my financial situation

D

Setting boundaries with people in my life

Question 8 of 9

8. What’s the biggest sign that you’re ready for change?

A

I’m tired of feeling lost inside myself

B

I’m starting to believe there’s more waiting for me—and I don’t want to miss it

C

I want to feel in control of my money, not afraid

D

I’m ready to build stronger, more supportive connections.

Question 9 of 9

9. Final Question 

Looking back at your answers—and thinking about where you feel pulled to grow—
which of these areas feels like it needs your attention most right now?

 

(Choose the one that feels most true today. There’s no wrong answer.)

A

Confidently Me – I want to reconnect with who I really am

B

Confidence to Go for More – I want to believe there’s more ahead and go after it

C

Money Confidence – I want to feel secure and in control of my finances

D

Relationship Confidence – I want to build healthy, supportive connections

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