Valentine’s Day? Let’s Make It About You Instead!

Ah, Valentine’s Day—the annual reminder to “couple up or else,” served with a side of heart-shaped chocolates and cringe-worthy commercials. We know the pressure is real, both from society and sometimes from that little voice in your head. But here’s the deal: we don’t want you diving into dating with the frantic energy of a last-minute clearance sale. That’s why we’ve been cooking up workbooks designed to help you hit pause, breathe, and figure out what a healthy relationship looks like before you swipe right. From recognizing red flags to acing first-date conversations, we’ve got your back.

And just in time for Valentine’s, we dropped a blog that breaks down the types of men you might meet—because preparation is half the battle, right?

Check it out and take the first step toward dating with confidence, not chaos.

xo Carolyn & Mimi

What's Inside This Week

✏️ New Blog Post: The Men You’ll Meet After Divorce

🙌 Must-Haves for Confidence and Clarity in Dating

🌟 Answers to the Community Question

🌸 Affirmation of the Week

🎁 Resources and Gifts: The Ready For More Store

✏️ New Blog: Oh the men you'll meet....

Title: Dating After Divorce: A Field Guide to the Men You’ll Encounter

Dating can be a wild adventure—part rom-com, part true crime podcast, and part existential crisis. And while the ultimate goal might be to meet someone amazing, let’s be honest: the dating pool isn’t exactly overflowing with Prince Charmings.

Sure, you might remember what dating was like before your marriage, but the men you meet after divorce are like navigating a foreign country—you’re never quite sure what the customs are, and sometimes you don’t even speak the same language. Among them, you’ll find a colorful assortment of characters, some good, some not-so-good, and a few downright perplexing.

You’re not the same person you were twenty years ago. Divorce has a way of teaching you what you value, what you’ll tolerate, and, most importantly, what you won’t. That growth gives you a fresh perspective on dating—and a unique ability to spot the gems in a sea of questionable contenders.

But before you dive back into the dating pool, take some time to reconnect with yourself. Dating isn’t just about finding “the one”—it’s about rediscovering who you are and what you want. Our Who Am I Now? The Essential Journal Kit for Divorced Women is the perfect place to start. It’s designed to help you explore who you are post-divorce, get clear on your values, and approach dating with confidence.

So treat dating like an experiment—a way to explore your wants, needs, likes, and dislikes. Instead of hunting for a lifelong partner right out of the gate, focus on having fun, staying curious, and learning the dating ropes again.

Because before you can find someone who’s a good fit for your life, you’ve got to reconnect with yourself. And who knows? You might just have some laughs along the way—especially when you meet some of the characters below.

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If you’re feeling inspired (or at least mildly entertained) by our new blog and the breakdown of the men you might meet, let’s talk about making sure you are fully prepped for the dating scene. Because showing up with confidence isn’t just about dodging the red flags—it’s about knowing what you actually want and feeling good while you’re out there. So, we put together a few tools to help you navigate dating without the stress, second-guessing, or late-night ‘what am I doing?’ spirals.

Consider this your dating prep kit—minus the pep talks from well-meaning but married friends.

Dealbreakers Before Dating:  Know what works for you—and what absolutely doesn’t. This workbook helps you get clear on your boundaries and values so you can date with confidence and avoid wasting time on the wrong matches.

First Date Conversation Guide:  No more awkward silences or rambling about the weather. This guide is packed with questions and tips to keep the conversation flowing and help you truly get to know someone on a first date.

Rebuilding Relationships After Divorce: Ready to break old patterns and build healthier connections? This resource is all about creating fulfilling relationships, whether you're dating, reconnecting with friends, or redefining family dynamics post-divorce.

Who Am I Now? The Essential Journal Kit for Divorced Women: Rediscover the most important person in your life—yourself. This journal kit is your go-to for reconnecting with your authentic self, dreaming big, and designing the next chapter of your life.

🌟 Answers to the Community Question

We Asked:

What's one piece of advice you'd give your past self about dating?

And wow, you delivered:

If there’s one thing that you've all seemed to learn, it’s that dating isn’t about proving your worth—it’s about finding someone who sees it without you having to convince them. The biggest takeaways? Trust your gut, don’t settle out of fear, and pay attention to actions, not just words. The right relationship should feel like an addition to your life, not a project to manage. And maybe the most freeing advice of all—dating can be fun if you let it be. You’re not auditioning for love; you’re choosing what (and who) deserves a place in your world.

From hard-earned wisdom to those ‘I wish I knew this sooner’ moments, here are some of the best responses we received:

• "Don’t ignore the red flags—they’re there for a reason."
• "Be yourself from the start. The right person will love you for it."
• "Stop trying to fix people—it’s not your job."
• "Never settle out of fear of being alone."
• "Trust your gut—it knows before you do."
• "Make sure they’re adding to your life, not taking away from it."
• "You don’t have to earn someone’s love—it should come freely."
• "Take your time—there’s no rush to find ‘the one.’"
• "Date someone who shows up for you, not just talks about it."
• "It’s okay to walk away if it’s not right."

🌸 Affirmation of the Week